Thursday, March 18, 2010

BABY MAKING TIME!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Spring is knocking at our door here in New England. Our beautiful bulbs are about to bloom and all our trees are coming back to life. This is why I LOVE living up here. No offence to my TEXAS friends and family. Texas will always be my first love.

Time has flown by so fast with our journey to blissful parenthood. It seems like yesterday DH and I were talking to BLT about being our egg donor and now come Friday, March 26th (just one week away) I will have my embryo transfer! Excitement does not even describe what we are feeling. We are all walking on cloud 9 and praying for the best outcome possible.

BLT got here last Friday, March 12th and she will be leaving Saturday, March 27th. DH and I are having so much fun spending time with her it will be very hard to say good bye. No fights, No arguments, NOTHING! We are getting along so wonderfully it is very surprising to us all especially with all the situations we are dealing with on a day to day basics.

I have heard that when people conceive they sometimes get very forgetful and I have heard it called “baby brain”. Well I have a question…can you get “baby brain” without being with child? Hahahaha. The reason I ask is because I am so forgetful these days. BLT had to take two flights to get up here. Well I looked at her schedule and told DH we have to be at the airport early to get a good spot to hold our welcome sign I made for my sis. Yep…DH is going crazy already. Anyway…we leave with Layla (this is Layla on the car ride there)

and we start our half hour drive to get there in time. As we pull up to the parking area I check out the flight information and realize that the time I was looking at was when she landing in Ohio for her connecting flight and she would not be here for another 3 ½ hours. Well this was DH on the drive home…

Hahaha. He is trying so hard not to get upset. Mom and Daddy O would be so proud.

So we go home and we start off three hours later for our second trip to pick up our babies egg donor.

STRESS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
When BLT arrived DH and I were holding up a sign that said “The Power of Three Let It Be! We LOVE you BLT!” This was her face when she saw it.














I have to say it was a GREAT sign. Sorry I don’t have a photo of it. Needless to say when BLT got here we all got in a better mood (all meaning DH) and from that moment on we have been enjoying each other so much.

Every day either BLT, DH or myself are making trips to the hospital to have blood work, ultrasounds and being prodded and poked left and right. Not to forget all the SHOTS and MEDICATIONS we all have to take. It is scary to think about what we are putting our bodies through, but we all have strong faith knowing God is carrying us the entire way.

There are so many different medications for sis and I to take that we really have to stay super organized so we don’t mess up. Here is what the dresser in BLT’s room looks like.

My room looks similar. DH has to give me shots in my derriere and I even put a guide on the wall in our room for him to follow so he does not mess up. This will give you all an idea of where I have to receive my injections.
OUCH! OUCH! OUCH! Not a fun way to wake up in the morning. Although I really can’t complain since I have to give sis a shot every morning at 9am and every evening at 8pm of two different meds. She is such a trooper through all of this.
Our donor nurse tells us everyday how beautiful BLT’s ovaries look. She has given them names like lil’ rascals, feisty lil’ ovaries and today’s new name was good looking bee hives. Hahahahaha. Our nurse is GREAT and she has a wonderful way of putting a smile on all of our faces no matter what kind of day we are having and believe me that is very important.
Tomorrow DH is taking me to get my ultra sound and blood work. We are looking for my lovely uterus to be a level 8 (we still don't know what that means). Dr. B has me on not one, not two, BUT FOUR vivelle dot patches (estradiol). This medication truly makes me feel horrible. I have had one ER visit two weeks ago while working a HUGE event for my job and I feel so emotional at all times. I cry all the time and then I am laughing. I just don’t understand how women do this more than once. I really hope this works the first time.

BLT goes to the doctor on Saturday then again on Sunday to monitor her levels. She will have blood work and ultrasounds each visit. We were told Sunday would be her TRIGGER DAY (that is the day she starts her THIRD injection to start the retrieval process). Our donor nurse said she would not be surprised if her trigger day is Saturday instead because her body is responding so well to all the meds. Now if SUNDAY, March 21 is her trigger day then BLT’s surgery for egg retrieval will be Tuesday, March 23rd and my embryo transfer will be Friday, March 26th. 11 days later (April 6th) will be the blood work and results confirming pregnancy (hopefully).
Well it is time for me to go and give BLT her night-time belly shot. We will keep you all posted as the week goes on.

Love Y'ALL!

4 comments:

  1. I love my 2 beautiful daughters and of course Ray. I wish I could be up there with you and I wish we lived closer. I am blessed to be your mother which I am so proud to be. You are both so blessed and there are many people praying for all of you . I know the babies that are being prepared for you are going to be perfect and beautiful. You have done a great job reporting progress and how you have handled this entire program you all have to follow. God Bless all of you and YAYA loves you soooo much. I can't wait to get up there in April.
    Love YAYA

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  2. Julie, I had no idea that you were going thru this. My best friends just completed IVF for the first time after 3 years of trying. They found out they are pregnant and will know beg of April if they are having one or two sweet babies!! You wouldln't believe all that she been thru emotionally and what she has overcome physically. Remember there is nothing to hard for God and nothing he can't do... I believe this more now than ever after witnessing my friends journey. Love you girl and will pray, pray, pray for you! Your sister sounds amazing and must be to do this for you!

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  3. Im a friend of Nicole and also the sister of her BF (Kacey) she speaks of above...I will be praying for you everyday now! whitney

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  4. Congratulations to all three of you......This is Illa in Urbandale, IA better know as Grandma and hopefully Great Grandma in the near future........Keep us posted on the results..........
    Love all of you and sending many blessings,
    Illa

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